The REAL Worst Part of Being Fat and Gay.
A lot of bigger gay guys, myself included, feel excluded by the gay “community” because of our weight. Yeah, that sucks. A lot of bigger gay guys, myself included, feel discouraged because most guys only want skinny-average sized men. And yeah, that sucks.
But the real problem, the true issue with being fat and gay is that most of the men who do like us don’t actually like us. Sure, they’re are some, but to most chasers we’re just fat and that’s their biggest concern. It won’t matter about our personal hygiene, or intelligence, or anything really just so long as the guy is fat.
I so rarely get complimented on things that someone smaller in size would get compliments on. No “nice eyes”, or “Wow, I didn’t know you were so in ____. Thats a really cool hobby.” Its like the men who want us are blinded by our weight so those things can’t be seen. More often than not I hear “mmmmm you have such big thighs. i want my face between them.” or “i bet your belly is so soft”.
There is a lot more that I have to offer besides big thighs, and a fuzzy stomach, or as one not-so-missed tumblr called me “mmm mmm fatty pink nuts.”
The worst thing I hear, in my own opinion, is if I’m upset I’ll get texts or messages or IM’s saying “I’m sorry you’re sad cubby. I wish I could rub your belly.”
Okay, first mistake, don’t fucking call me cubby. If you know my name then use it, if you don’t know it don’t assume that I like your stupid animal names. That includes “burr”, “husbear”, “cubcakes”, or any variation there of.
Second mistake, if I’m upset what makes you think that its an opportunity for you to hit on me? When I’m angry why do you think I’d want fucking “belly rubs”? If I’m depressed that is not the time to tell me you want to touch me.
I am glad that there are men out there who prefer my body size, because I like being this size. I do not, however, like being a fetish. And if you talk to me like I am you will get zero of my time.
I’m not a big guy myself, but this man speaks so much truth.
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